Dave Campbell lives
near Seattle and is a seasoned minister. He traveled for many years, singing and
evangelizing in the Northwest. He made
several appearances on TBN’s local Praise the Lord as well as other television
appearances in Alaska, Seattle and Vancouver areas. When Dave stopped touring, he became a children’s
pastor near Seattle and introduced many innovative techniques for bringing the
Bible to life for young minds. After a
miraculous calling at a camp meeting he launched “Joy of Freedom” outreach
ministry and pastored it for 9 years. The outreach is still ministering to the homeless, destitute and
chemically dependent individuals, today.
Among the many
pastoral privileges, Dave spent many hours counseling people who had severe
issues in their lives. The experience
he gained for practical life applications of Biblical principles has been
invaluable. Dave brings many things to
the counseling table, including good common sense and a ground roots approach
to difficult and sensitive challenges.
Also, find Dave Paul Campbell on FaceBook
Twitter: @dacampbe
So, You’re Angry at God. Now What?
Don’t you ever be mad at God, the preacher said! Okay, yeah, God is perfect and Holy - so that’s logical, right? But people won’t admit they’re angry!
I don’t think
anyone really wants to be mad at God.
Most of us just don’t know what to do when the anger comes. I’ve discovered some important keys in this
arena. They appear in my book, “The
OTHER Jesus?” Let me share some of them.
Destination
Picture a guy
who’s in a strange city. He has a map
but doesn’t know where he is. So, how
can he get where he wants to go? He
can’t! The first step, then, is to say,
“Hey, right or wrong, I am angry! That’s
a good start.
Why Am I Angry?
Now I have to
ask myself, why am I angry? Did God do
something terrible or are there other factors?
The Hidden Truth
I get angry at
God when I think HE was the one who did something bad. I can get angry when I think God’s personality
is vengeful. In short - when I see God
as someone He is not.
Books/Media
So many things
in this world paint God as mean spirited.
No wonder so many people shake their fist at Him. Books we read; movies we watch and music we
hear can all lead us to believe God is not on our side.
The Church?
Yep, those
wonderful stained glass windows can be a negative influence. People & Leaders in the church; Pictures
hung in the entry way; statues and figures on the walls. All these can show us a Jesus that is
different than the real one.
Deceiver
Don’t ever
discount Satan when it comes to degrading the image of God. He will parade like an angel and strike
confusion into the deepest part of your heart.
The God of the Bible is much different than Satan advertises.
Language
Language and
culture are large barriers to understanding the God of the Bible. We have good translations, but we still
cannot see Jesus the same way the disciples did. And, when we try to share the good news of
Jesus, words are not adequate.
Bottom Line
We are always
experiencing erosion of God’s image. Just like copying something many times
results in degraded results, so our memory of God degrades with time. To make good copies, we go back to the
original. To make sure we have the right
image of God, we go back to the source; explore God’s Word and talk with Him,
often. It’s the only way!
The OTHER Jesus? Amazon Paperback
Make Me Happy – or ELSE!
Can people get bratty about their happiness? I sure can. I guess our western culture has helped enable a sense of entitlement. A right to pursue happiness is even built into our country’s founding documents.
Finding
happiness is not nearly as easy as pursuing it, right? And we all know when people pursue the wrong
avenues, happiness is never found. So
what are the right avenues? My second
book, “Make Me Happy” explores the idea of happiness entitlement and all the
main avenues - good and bad.
Let me share a
little behind-the-cover insight into Make Me Happy:
Seems like we
all try to find happiness in someone else:
the perfect mate; our idolized children; or even a best friend. What puzzles me is – I’ve never seen anyone
totally happy, all the time, no matter who they were with.
Job, in the
Bible seemed to have something different in his heart. He lost his spouse, money and children, yet
he was able to keep a certain level of self-worth throughout the whole
ordeal. He wasn’t ecstatic about what
was happening but he refused to take his attention away from the one who made
him deeply happy – God. Quite a lesson.
Happiness is not
automatically granted when we have a certain level of wealth or when we have a
great mate. So how does happiness
come? Ah, now that’s the right question!
No matter how
happiness comes to a person, one question is important: Is happiness worth pursuing? I believe so.
Without any happiness, we despair and sometimes even give up on life.
One thing seems
clear to me, in God’s Word: God’s primary concern is not our day to day
happiness. He does care about us and
about how we feel, but there are higher priorities in his mind than our
whimsical and fickle emotions. When the
larger, more important things are watched over, God knows there is a much
better chance for happiness in our lives; our eternal lives, as well.
Satan, on the
other hand, is concerned with our need for happiness. He uses that need against us. He tries to get us so focused on our own
happiness that we destroy other people’s happiness.
There’s also a
huge difference between happiness, joy, contentment and fulfillment. Sometimes, when we say we’re unhappy, it’s
because we are missing one of those other elements. I think it’s important to see those
differences. It can save us from bad
roads.
Happiness seems
to come to us in measured amounts. What
many people miss is this: Happiness can
be planned. I wonder why something that
we want so much is left to chance. If we
want a future of happiness, perhaps planning for it is a better approach to
life.
Make Me Happy Amazon
“I’m not worried about things I can’t see. I’ll stay in the “real” world,” He said. But, is that smart? What if things we can’t see CAN hurt us?
My latest book,
“The Veil” deals with these unseen things – good and evil. We all need to know who is hiding things and
what is behind those dense curtains. Is
everything hidden, evil? Are masked
things innocent? When is it appropriate
to pierce those veils or bring them down?
Let’s me share some ideas with you.
“The Veil” lays
out many of those things that we cannot see.
Some things are not commonly known.
I think it’s important to observe this famous phrase: To be forewarned
is to be forearmed. Being aware of the
hidden is vital to self-protection.
God keeps many
things from human beings. His reasons
are pure and He veils things to protect us. Can we all see angels? We know they do very good work and are always
busy, but we are not supposed to see them or their operations. God also, in his mercy, does not allow us to
see all the evil activity around us.
Satan masks
things also, but his intentions are anything but pure. He schemes, deceives and hides things to
destroy. He tries to hide all that is
truly good. Demons work to alter the
image of the pure in heart.
Mankind likes to
hide things too. I’ve seen people lie,
plot and attempt to damage other humans – sometimes in the name of what they
call good. When it suits us, we all seem
to cover up things we don’t want others to see.
Sometimes that act can be for a good cause and sometimes it can be just
plain devious.
There are so
many other things that are veiled: Truth, Beauty and Ugliness. We don’t even know how to define truth and
everyone thinks they know what real truth is.
God only knows what is true.
Beauty is masked, painted on and misrepresented in every culture. Ugliness can be used to manipulate others as
much as beauty – so it also is not always what it appears on the surface.
Money,
Power? These bring more confusion and
misdirection that almost anything else.
More destruction has occurred from these sources than probably any other
single source. What a person really is,
becomes terribly hidden once they are perceived as powerful or famous.
Of course the
ultimate veil is Death. No one can
clearly see behind that curtain. God has
designed this area to remain opaque. It
might be frustrating but this is one area we need to leave alone and trust our
creator.
I could not
discuss veils for long without mentioning my own deep struggle with unseen
things. I fought a terrible battle with
evil forces that were not visual. They
were very real and it took 14 years of my life to overcome them.
The Veil Amazon
5 Ways to Deal with Your Anger (toward
God)
Yes, I’ve been angry at God. I haven’t met a person who hasn’t been – at one time or another. Sad thing is – I’ve met few people who knew what to do with that anger – except bury it.
My book “The
OTHER Jesus?” explores the sources of that anger. It gives deep reasons why people end up
hating God. It also helps the reader see
false images of God and come to a better, closer relationship with God.
The first step
to understanding a “God-Hate” is to admit it.
You may want to leave that place of anger and go to a better place, yet
have no idea how to get there. Like a
person with a map, you can’t get to your destination until you first figure out
where you are, right now.
The second step
is to realize that it’s probably not your fault. So much guilt has been poured across the
pulpit as well as across the pew, when it comes to being angry with God. The truth is there are many outside sources
that feed your anger. Let’s explore some
obvious ones.
The third step
is seeing that our image of God is tainted by so many sources. From the time we are born, everyone wants to
tell us and show us what God is like. Many of those sources are inaccurate and
some are absolutely wrong. Recognizing
how deeply that has affected our relationship with God is vital to anger
recovery.
The fourth step
is to recognize that the church, books, music, movies and even languages can serve
to form a false image of God.
·
Churches
can teach twisted views of God and display pictures that don’t look anything
like the real Jesus.
·
Books,
music and movies can tell stories that are different than what the Bible says
and can paint an image of Christ that is very different from His true
character.
·
Languages
can be a barrier when it comes to concepts that the Bible’s writers were trying
to convey. Sometimes translations can be
misleading.
The fifth step
is to come face to face with an evil force called Satan that works constantly
to damage God’s reputation. Never
underestimate the deception of the enemy and his ability to get you thinking
badly toward a very good God.
Finally: If you
are experiencing anger toward God, maybe “The OTHER Jesus?” can help you sort
out your feelings and the sources of your anger. Maybe you too can come to the place where you
realize you have been serving the wrong Jesus – the one in your mind, rather
than the one in the Bible. It could
permanently change your relationship with God.
It changed mine.
Thank you Lynelle. I believe there is significant help for readers in these books. It's deep reading, but worth the effort. Where there is depression, sadness and spiritual faltering, these can be an "aspirin" to help people through the crisis.
ReplyDeleteThanks Dave, it was great meeting you and posting this. It sounds very helpful, I know there is a huge demand for restoration within the body. Many people that are hurt because of the system, with many questions. Wish you all the best with the sales and with your ministry.
DeleteThanks for stopping by Roksana. I'm sure the readers will find your site helpful.
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