The purpose of this book is to teach you how to
transform your life. While this book is no substitute for the Word of God
(The Bible), let this be a guide that simply helps you gain a deeper
understanding of what God is trying to impart in all of us.
Change Beyond The Pain will help you discover:
• True healing comes from allowing God to transform your life
• You do not have to revert back to the same cycle of hurt, anger, fear and depression
• God has a plan for your life
• There is power and purpose in your pain
This book will teach you how to move beyond accepting change to embracing transformation. So, if you are seeking restoration, grab your Bible, this book, and open your heart and watch the transformation begin.
Change Beyond The Pain will help you discover:
• True healing comes from allowing God to transform your life
• You do not have to revert back to the same cycle of hurt, anger, fear and depression
• God has a plan for your life
• There is power and purpose in your pain
This book will teach you how to move beyond accepting change to embracing transformation. So, if you are seeking restoration, grab your Bible, this book, and open your heart and watch the transformation begin.
About The Author
Monifa Robinson Groover, a native of New York
City, moved to Teaneck, New Jersey with her
family at the tender age of
twelve. Upon graduation from Teaneck High School, Monifa obtained a
Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology from Clark Atlanta University (Atlanta,
GA), as well as a Master of Social Work Degree from Smith College School of
Social Work (Northampton, MA). After relocating to Atlanta, Georgia, and
extensive work in the field of social services, she obtained a Master of Public
Administration Degree with a concentration in Management from Troy State
University (Atlanta, GA).Monifa has devoted her life to helping others see the potential that lies within them. Having provided a number of services for diverse populations including but not limited to perpetrators of sexual crimes, individuals faced with substance abuse challenges and individuals in the criminal justice system; as well as having coached women entrepreneurs, her experience has taught her that neither position nor status dictate the level of pain and misfortune one may encounter. It was at this time she realized the call on her life was much greater.
In 2003 she released her first book entitled “Within Your Reach, Inspiration That Quiets the Mind and Soothes the Soul”. (ISBN: 1-930231-03-2). This book is filled with devotions that shows people how to strategically turn their pain into gain, tragedy into triumph and victimization into victorious living. She released her second book entitled “Change Beyond The Pain” in 2012 (ISBN: 978-0-9836776-0-4). This book provides a more in-depth look at how individuals can use the Word of God to transform their lives. It also shows them how to begin moving beyond the blows that life may sometimes deal.
Monifa has been called by God to help others reach their God-given potential. Her duty is to equip others with the proper tools and resources to move beyond their circumstances and live healthier and more productive lives, which she believes can only be found when one has a relationship with Jesus Christ.
Her personal journey, combined with her education and work experience, and most importantly her relationship with Jesus Christ, collectively play a vital role in the work she passionately does today. She resides in Savannah, Georgia and is a faithful member of New Covenant Holiness Church #3, located in Savannah, Georgia, where her beloved husband, Jamie Groover is pastor.
Email Address: customerservice@withinyourreach.org
Chapter 5 The Power And Purpose Of
Pain
All things work together for good to
them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose
Pain is a very important and necessary part of
life. In the medical field, pain is defined as an unpleasant sensory and
emotional experience associated with actual or potential tissue damage. Pain
motivates us to withdraw from damaging or potentially damaging situations,
protects the damaged body part while it heals, and serves as a reminder to
avoid similar situations in the future. So even though pain is very unpleasant,
it has a profound purpose; a purpose other than to cause you discomfort and
make your life miserable. Since pain is so unpleasant, most would say they wish
the feeling never existed, but in reality, many medical professionals become
extremely worried when a patient has been injured and does not present any sign
of pain. So, yes, pain does have a purpose. The question is have you discovered
the purpose for your pain? Ahh, and I don’t mean physical pain. Have you
discovered the purpose for your emotional and spiritual pain?
Change Beyond The Pain
Cycles, predictability, consistency,
regularity…these are just a few things humans crave. The very thing humans long
for is to know that everything in their lives will remain consistent. Sadly,
this concept applies even when humans are involved in situations that are
detrimental to their health and well-being. Most people never transition to the
next level in their lives because they either don’t want change bad enough, or
are unwilling to do what needs to be done for that change to occur. This may be
harsh, nevertheless, it is true. Going to the next level will ALWAYS require us
to move further, push harder, persevere longer, and dig deeper. Most sincerely
believe they are ready for this, but the true test of our readiness comes when
it is actually time to push harder, persevere longer, and dig deeper.
5 Star Review
The book started with a twist from the normal Inspirational
books you read and grabbing your attention. The author’s straight forward
question had me as she asked “Why you are reading this book?”
A very interesting question.
A lot of times when someone ask a question we respond
immediately without thinking, so this are what the writer ask the reader. What
do you expect from reading this book? Provoking a thoughtful mindset through
out the book that makes you ponder. The book is about transformation.
This book is a guide to see you through the process of
transformation in your life leaning on the scriptures as basis for your
transformation process. From the start you are challenge to look deep in to
yourself as you use this guide alongside the Bible as your main source for
transformation to move beyond the emotional pain.
As we read this guide we are encountering tuff questions, where
we need to search ourselves to be honest and truthful so we can encounter real
transformation beyond the pain. When reading the guide the terms Change and
transformation are clearly addressed and explained so we can understand where
we are going with this guide.
To best Review this book I thought it best to do it chapter by chapter.
CH 1 Surrender.
Surrender is the first step to start transformation in your
life. We get confronted with the term surrender and it is plainly explained
what needs to be done. God needs total surrender so we can be transformed, one
thing I pickup and is stressed very much in this chapter is that we are not in
control though we may think so. We have not totally surrender, unless we hand
full control of our lives to God so that he can form us and we can be fruitful
as he attended it for us. Not my way but His way. This chapter is devoted to
total surrender to Gods purpose for your life even the questions asked confront
the reader with a deep searching of own life.
CH 2 God’s Perfect Will.
We get confronted with perfection in this chapter not our view
of perfect but God’s view of perfection. Everything about Him is flawless. We
are asked what is God’s perfect will is it possible in this world, if our eyes
are taken of our abilities and we focus on God then it is possible in Christ.
We are constantly reminded that God’s plan is better than ours for our lives
because we have a plan and then a backup plan if the first one fails or maybe a
third plan. God’s plan for our lives is infallible. Through out the chapter we
get confronted with our inabilities to conquer what is causing it and the
solution is provided. The writer through the working of the Holy Spirit is
guiding you to deal with the inadequacies in your own life and to walk in
victory in other words genuine transformation.
CH 3 God’s perfect timing
When we go through this chapter something very valuable
comes forth - the term waiting, we as humans tend to work according to the
clock and we want it now, we need to take time and wait for God, his timing is
perfect. We are challenged to look at timing differently, what does it entitled.
When I wait must I do something? Everything concerns timing are been looked
upon so we can understand it better. Timing is n very important part of the
transformation process. This chapter clearly focused on the different aspects
of timing that includes waiting and obedience to God’s plan.
CH 4 All for his
Glory.
This chapter handles the basic thing about humans
selfishness, everything we do we want to be glorified and be praised. When it
is after all God our Father that needs to be Glorified, a very different
perspective to our view point. This chapter deals in depth to the problem so we
can understand in perspective what it means to Glorify God with our lives. So that
after everything is said and discussed, and the truth is brought to light. It
is not about us but All Glory belongs to God our Father.
CH 5 The power and purpose of pain.
This chapter handles your emotional pain, what does it mean
and how will it benefit your life to understand the purpose of it in the right
perspective. As I read this chapter a lot of emotion surface as a similar
experience came to mind. So pain causes a lot of actions some bad and also some
good. How we handle it depends on our walk with God.
CH 6 Faith…But first you must believe.
For us to transform we must believe and have faith in God
that he knows our future although we cannot see it now. Absolute trust in His
word is essential. We learn that faith is a noun but also an action when you
hear and do without questioning God. A
chapter full of powerful insight that needs to be read and carefully studied to
grasp the full extent of faith.
CH 7 Transformation….It’s an inside job.
The previous chapters are all building blocks to help us
search and ready ourselves to fully understand transformation and ready to go
through it. Transformation is a painful and difficult process but in the end
just as refined gold purity comes forth.
CH 8 Transformation is within your reach.
We need to take hold of this opportunity and face the pain
and fears we have and push so that transformation can truly take place in our
lives. It is sometimes a lonely process but take heart God is with you all the
way. Transformation is a time of Revelation.
This guide is really well put together and I know why
because of the Holy Spirit leading the writer to work through their own pain
and receive revelation. This guide will surely help when you are seeking
answers to questions no one wants to answer. You are confronted with and given
solutions for the pain. At the end it is all about your place in God’s Kingdom and His
perfect love for you.
Thanks Lynelle for hosting Monifa on tour
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